Moving to a new city or living in a city by choice is one of the most important decisions that we can make. And when this decision is a must, we need not only take into consideration the practical aspects of the matter - like the job that we have there or how expensive life is. One thing that no one almost ever considers is the rhythm of the city and the fact that this rhythm will take charge of our life once we relocate to the city.
Even though you haven’t studied Probabilities during 3 years at university like I did :|, you already know that the Rule of Majority always applies. In our case this rule will not be ignored: the majority of choices that the majority of inhabitants of the city make now, you will also make. There’s no escape.

If the majority of inhabitants of the city are stuck in traffic for 2 hours in the morning and another 2 in the evening, so will you. This is, of course, obvious. Some less obvious but not less painful aspects are:
- if the majority work from 9 to 7, so will you
- if the majority don’t do anything but sleep when they get home in the evening, so will you
- if the majority’s only way to enjoy themselves is to shop, so will you
- if the majority eat fast food at the office, so will you
- if the majority never go for a walk in the park, neither will you
- if the majority are influenced by what they see in TV and that only, so will you be
Some of these “rules” will take longer to take over your life, but they will also do that slower, and so you will not be able to tell that they did when it happens.
The world’s and a country’s biggest cities all obey the rule. Take a minute and think about it - think of a city (other than your own) and try to identify its rhythm. As this city has a rhythm and a life pattern, so does your own.

Yes, of course you can try to live “outside the box” in a city. And you can even succeed. Not in all aspects though – because the offer obeys the Majority Rule also and fits the requirements of the majority. But you can struggle and succeed. The question is – how long can you struggle? In the end you will give up waking up at 6 to avoid traffic, or driving across town to find that Bio store you like, or paying a lot of money on books and DVDs for entertainment and you will give in… to the city.
But why should we struggle? We can avoid all the pain and no gain
just by making the right choice from the start.
Look closely at the lives of the inhabitants of a new city – are they what you would like? In every little detail?
Because when it comes to living in a city, believing in your abilities to be the ONE that can escape the rhythm is an overrated thing.